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	<title>Jered Stoehr &#187; Interpersonal</title>
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		<title>A Modern POV (Point of View)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 09:29:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some people like to forward emails, I like to put TED videos on my blog.  Over the last couple of years, TED videos have consistently knocked my socks off and have made me reconsider all kinds of things about the world today &#8211; I love them.  This is a video that made me think about [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some people like to forward emails, I like to put TED videos on my blog.  Over the last couple of years, TED videos have consistently knocked my socks off and have made me reconsider all kinds of things about the world today &#8211; I love them.  This is a video that made me think about my assumptions.</p>
<p>He&#8217;s talking about people who aren&#8217;t centered on a god or a religion and the effects of their views.  All around the world modern people are looking past their religions (particularly those religions that judge and point fingers at non-believers I believe) and forming different world views.  What do these people believe in?  What is the effect of these views?  I was surprised at how relevant his observations were.</p>
<p>Speaker: Alain de Botton</p>
<p>Subject:  How we define success, in ourselves and  in others, and what it says about us</p>
<p>Time: 16:55</p>
<p>As of this posting, it has been translated into 15 languages <img src='http://sleeplessintaipei.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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<p>Another great talk from TED!</p>
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		<title>Who am I talking to?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Aug 2008 22:32:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So, I&#8217;ve got this blog and I keep writing things on it.  What&#8217;s the deal?  I have been asking myself that question more often lately, because it&#8217;s been harder and harder for me to write articles for some reason.  While looking for inspiration I found some articles I thought I&#8217;d share. I heard about Chris [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, I&#8217;ve got this blog and I keep writing things on it.  What&#8217;s the deal?  I have been asking myself that question more often lately, because it&#8217;s been harder and harder for me to write articles for some reason.  While looking for inspiration I found some articles I thought I&#8217;d share.</p>
<p>I heard about <a href="http://www.chrisbrogan.com/" target="_blank">Chris Brogan</a> through an article called &#8220;<a href="http://gobigalways.com/10-thought-leaders-boiled-down-to-10-words/" target="_blank">10 Thought Leaders Boiled down to 10 Words</a>&#8220;.  Using some free IBM software (called <a href="http://services.alphaworks.ibm.com/manyeyes/app" target="_blank">Many Eyes</a>), you can load all the text from your blog (or website or anything) and it&#8217;ll give you the most common words you use.  The article summarizes them by showing the 10 most common words found in their blogs.  Cool stuff, and some dynamic people.</p>
<p>A couple of articles from Chris&#8217; website that have really been helpful for me in understanding what a blog is are <a href="http://www.chrisbrogan.com/elements-of-a-personal-brand/" target="_blank">Elements of a Personal Brand</a> and <a href="http://www.chrisbrogan.com/when-your-blog-is-a-grand-stage/" target="_blank">When your blog is a Grand Stage</a>.  I really like both of them because they are miles away from the &#8220;travel blog / journal&#8221; concept and get at what the blogging community is.<br />
<img class="alignright size-full wp-image-156" title="jered-tea-taichung" src="http://sleeplessintaipei.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/jered-tea-taichung.jpg" alt="jered-tea-taichung" width="1024" height="768" /><br />
Other than a blog, and a facebook account, my main contribution to the internet is my <a href="http://delicious.com/" target="_blank">del.icio.us</a> account.  For those of you who don&#8217;t know what that is, you can read <a href="http://www.jeredstoehr.com/my_weblog/2008/01/social-tagging.html">this post</a> or check it out directly.  Comparing the words on my blog with those on all the websites I&#8217;ve ever saved, the 5 most common words on my blog are:</p>
<ol>
<li>Taiwan</li>
<li>People</li>
<li>World</li>
<li>Called</li>
<li>Things</li>
</ol>
<p>The 5 most common words I use when I save a website on delicious are:</p>
<ol>
<li>Tea</li>
<li>Taiwan</li>
<li>Portland</li>
<li>Blog</li>
<li>Free</li>
</ol>
<p>What to notice from that?  First off, they don&#8217;t match that well.  I my favorite website topic (<a href="http://delicious.com/jstoehr/tea" target="_blank">tea</a>) isn&#8217;t equally represented on my blog.  I can also see about my writing style with Called and Things on my blog.  I don&#8217;t know what else to say about the significance of it, but I think the question is: How Am I Represented Online?</p>
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		<title>Older and more Open Minded?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2008 15:42:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So, some people might be wondering why I moved to Taiwan.  Of course there are a lot of reasons, and if you know me that probably would give you a clue ( !! ), but there was another one that&#8217;s been on my mind again recently. As I get older I seem to be getting [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, some people might be wondering why I moved to Taiwan.  Of course there are a lot of reasons, and if you know me that probably would give you a clue ( !! ), but there was another one that&#8217;s been on my mind again recently.</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-158" title="mungerben" src="http://sleeplessintaipei.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/mungerben.gif" alt="mungerben" width="300" height="405" /> As I get older I seem to be getting more and more opinionated.  At work, we&#8217;ve all known the person who wants to say, &#8220;been there, done that, kid.  Ain&#8217;t nothin&#8217; new&#8221;</p>
<p>I started to wonder if it is possible to get more open minded as you get older.  If you agree that growing more open minded is a good thing, then you&#8217;d wonder how to do it.  It doesn&#8217;t seem to happen automatically.</p>
<p>There are a few people who&#8217;ve left behind quotes or have been talked about as being great at this virtue.  I believe this virtue has been said a lot of different ways, and here are a few:</p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.gongol.com/quotes/munger/" target="_blank">Charlie Munger</a><br />
(Warren Buffett&#8217;s right hand man and someone often compared with<br />
Benjamin Franklin) &#8211; &#8220;Any year that passes in which you don&#8217;t destroy<br />
one of your best loved ideas is a wasted year.&#8221;</li>
<li>&#8220;The more I learn the less I know&#8221;</li>
<li>Charles Darwin &#8211; &#8220;Of all the great scientists, Charles Darwin was the least obviously<br />
brilliant. He was not at all mathematical, he mastered no foreign<br />
languages&#8230;&#8221;  Rather what Darwin had more than anything was his unending questioning of his own beliefs.  Darwins <a href="http://www.darwinproject.ac.uk/content/view/130/125/" target="_blank">words paraphrased</a>: &#8220;Conscientious doubt, viewed not as a state of disbelief,<br />
but as a state of inquiry&#8230;&#8221;</li>
<li>Zen Buddhism &#8211; the concept of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shoshin" target="_blank">beginners mind</a>.  This is the method of doing everything as if you&#8217;ve never done it before.  Stay curious.</li>
</ul>
<p>I could have found more instances of this theme out there without too much trouble, but what I like about these three is that they are from completely different walks of life.  A biologist, a religious tenet, and a living, very successful, western businessman.  They are out there!</p>
<p>I decided that working / being in different environments (Ie. Taiwan)<br />
would be good for this because I would be forced to challenge a lot of<br />
my own assumptions.  This was one of the things that supported my move<br />
here and I hope will encourage me to grow more open minded, though I<br />
know I can&#8217;t do these kinds of things forever.</p>
<p>Image Courtesy of <a href="http://www.poorcharliesalmanack.com/intro.html" target="_blank">Poor Charlie&#8217;s Almanak</a> website</p>
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		<title>Intelligence?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Feb 2008 22:21:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Found an interesting article today from the Scientific American that talked about people&#8217;s internal views on intelligence. &#8220;&#8230;the two general classes of learners—helpless versus mastery-oriented. I realized that these different types of students not only explain their failures differently, but they also hold different “theories” of intelligence. The helpless ones believe that intelligence is a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Found an interesting article today from the <a href="http://www.sciam.com/">Scientific American</a> that talked about people&#8217;s internal <a href="http://www.sciam.com/article.cfm?id=the-secret-to-raising-smart-kids&amp;print=true">views on intelligence</a>.</p>
<p>&#8220;&#8230;the<img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-195" title="pic-sm-intelligence" src="http://sleeplessintaipei.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/pic-sm-intelligence-272x300.gif" alt="pic-sm-intelligence" width="272" height="300" /><br />
two general classes of learners—helpless versus mastery-oriented. I<br />
realized that these different types of students not only explain their<br />
failures differently, but they also hold different “theories” of<br />
intelligence. The helpless ones believe that intelligence is a fixed<br />
trait: you have only a certain amount, and that’s that. I call this a<br />
“fixed mind-set.” Mistakes crack their self-confidence because they<br />
attribute errors to a lack of ability, which they feel powerless to<br />
change.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;mastery-oriented children, on the other hand, think<br />
intelligence is malleable and can be developed through education and<br />
hard work. They want to learn above all else. After all, if you believe<br />
that you can expand your intellectual skills, you want to do just that.&#8221;</p>
<p>Good food for thought as you consider how you fit into the world.  Image from this <a href="http://blogs.ign.com/Christianavitch/2009/04/24/118785/">Sam Savage article</a></p>
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		<title>Asking Questions</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jan 2008 22:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is an oldie but a goodie, video from the late CNN show Crossfire.<br />
&quot;Jon Stewart browbeats CNN&#8217;s Crossfire hosts for their &quot;partisan<br />
hackery.&quot; Many suspect this now-legendary appearance <a href="http://www.boingboing.net/2005/01/05/cnn_crossfire_host_c.html">prompted CNN to remove the show from their line-up</a>.&quot;</p>
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<p>Whatever your political views, there are two things I really love about<br />
this video. First, Jon asks some great questions up front, then watched<br />
them hang. Second, he keeps going back to the process. Both of these<br />
techniques seem to be very effective in just about any situation. These<br />
are things we talk about a lot at <a href="http://www.screamingcircuits.com/">Screaming Circuits</a>, and I would imagine apply to any work environment or situation.</p>
<p>Going<br />
into the questioning aspect of things, there are lot of books that talk<br />
about that subject. A couple of different things that incorporate the<br />
questioning are the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Socratic_method">Socratic Method</a> (related to that <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Socratic_questioning">Socratic Questioning</a>), <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PDCA">PDCA</a> (Plan, Do, Check, Act), and some of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lean_manufacturing">Toyota&#8217;s Lean Manfacturing Techniques</a> touch on it also.</p>
<p>Those<br />
last two are more related to some of the professional training we get<br />
here at Screaming Circuits. PDCA is really about the process side of<br />
things, and utilizes asking questions throughout. Lean is a bit more<br />
complicated, and has many facets. Some of the most interesting are<br />
manufacturing techniques that are counter to what many people think of<br />
as common sense. The most powerful one to me being <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mura_%28Japanese_term%29">One Piece Flow</a>.</p>
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